Okay, I admit that I have a pair of thigh high boots. However, they are also stiletto heels, and I end up wearing them with my jpop/jrock type outfits mostly. Or under my trousers. Of course, I am also in my twenties so I can get away with that more.

Speaking of yaoi, that is pretty much how I always picture the Anita Blake men. As for the always has to be a girly and a "manly" pairing in yaoi, that bugs me so much. I love the pretty boys, but it pisses me off that the "fem" boy is always the submissive, which is why I end up hating so many yaois out there. I love Ai No Kusabi though since both Iason and Riki play male roles. One is still dominant, but it has more to do with society than which one is the fem.