I'm so glad that someone else knew which book it was! All I could say was that it was from one of the books I didn't read, someone on Lashouts had line by line ripped it, and it had far too much about the King Kong remake in which Nathaniel wanted to watch the movie and Anita was pissed that he didn't want to have theater!sex with her... and that he wanted her to either try to dom him at least once or let him go so that he could find someone who would satisfy his needs.

Since you have read farther than me, did Nathaniel ever get his wish or was that point of contention between them dropped?