I hate hate HATE the whole "you werent abused enough" talk. I never post here but i lurk constantly, so i hope you guys dont mind me sharing. I was raped a few years ago and was told thing very similar to that due to the fact that the rape itself only lasted about one to two minutes at the most. I had several people say thing along the lines that it wasnt "real rape" since it was over such a small time. When i tell them that half the time was anal rape, some of then change their tune, some dont. Alot of them said that i only screamed rape when he tried anal on me. I still have lots of psychological scars and issues to work with and i thank my lucky stars that it wasnt worse, but it in no way negates my abuse.