I find the sentiment deeply disturbing. I was under the impression that people who are into more extreme things not because of the thrill of something going horribly wrong, but for the thrill of it going right. Otherwise what's the point of packing two parachutes and doing X hours of training before leaping out of a plane, or having a safe word/gesture/limits during a scene. The more I think about it, the skeevier it gets because it seems more like she's getting off on the idea of the rape/noncon part -- not just things happening to Anita, but things that Anita does to other people too -- rather than the fantasy of it. Which...can't be healthy let alone part of SSC.